Business School Part Three – MBAs For Applicants In Committed Relationships

Some factors to consider for both you and your partner as you navigate this difficult, but exciting decision.

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Business schools have an enormous range in philosophy, focus, peer networks, alumni support, and educational approach. Your vision for an MBA may be matched by some schools, but not by others.

It’s critical to research what you can expect from a particular B-School for both content and experience. For applicants in committed relationships, the spend decision becomes even more complicated.

Here are some factors to consider for both you and your partner as you navigate this difficult, but exciting decision:

Finances

Heading to business school might put you into serious sticker shock. The degree can cost you up to $250,000 for the full two years, including living, travel, and social expenses, all of which play a vital part in cultivating the business school networks that becomes so valuable down the road.

The investment typically takes equal priority to academics because it uniquely accelerates professional practice and exposure. With this in mind, students and partners should factor all clubs — not just partner ones — into the B-School decision.

The good news is that tuition costs vary widely. There are top 20 B-Schools where you can pay much less. It’s important to know what you can afford and to develop a financial plan. Will you be paying out of pocket, using student loans, or getting financial aid?

Geography will impact your finances as well. The cost of living in Boston or Los Angeles, for example, will be greater than in Cincinnati, Charlotte, or Pittsburgh. If your partner is an established professional, geography may impact job prospects.

Housing

It’s helpful to visit as many B-School campuses as possible to get a sense of the community and where you might want to live. Is married housing affordable and easy to find? Is it modern and clean? Will you be nearby, or right on campus? Are there options to rent and still feel connected to the community? Will you need a car? How close are you to public transportation or a grocery store? Making the move to B-School is much like relocating anywhere. You’ll want to find the best housing and neighborhood.

Interestingly, all B-School housing is not created equal. At Wharton, there is housing right by campus, but practically all students live in (more expensive) Center City, about a 40-minute walk from campus. At Harvard Business School, single students live in dorms on campus, but married student housing is a little farther away. Especially if you are moving to B-School with a partner, it’s worth thinking about specific housing expectations at the school selection stage.

Geography

Are you and your partner die-hard Northerners, or looking for a sun-kissed life close to the beach? Is the Midwest more your style? There are as many flavors of B-School as there are programs. Where you go to school will have a lot to do with your overall experience, the type of social life you desire, your household expenses, and access to employers.

Will your partner be a full-time resident, or flying in for regular visits? Proximity to a local airport may be a deciding factor. Of course, if you have school age children, you’ll want to research nearby schools.

You may also want to anticipate where you’ll settle after the MBA. Many B-Schools are regional powerhouses and job offers are likely to come from that geographic area, while some B-School (especially the ones at the top of the rankings) have a much more national and international reach. Of course your job offer could come from anywhere, but it’s worth noting that the higher-ranked schools will have a wider array of national and international employers visiting and recruiting on campus. You can go to B-School to switch careers, and also to establish roots in an entirely new geographic area.

Program Strength

While all schools will claim to cover all aspects of an MBA, not even the elite schools are elite at everything. Nearly all schools, for example, claim some kind of international component to their programs. These components, however, can range from a four day jaunt through a foreign city, to a full language, culture, and professional immersion. Which one is right for you?

Furthermore, a school’s focus will impact the choices their alumni have made, and therefore the alumni network, the types of recruiters who visit the school, and the background and experience of your peers in school.

Do you want a program with a concentration in Finance? In Marketing? In Non-Profit? In Entrepreneurship? To figure which programs claim a particular strength versus those that truly walk the walk, talk to as many alumni and current students who are or intend to work in the industry of your interest. This will give you a good sense of the power of the industry-specific network that a school can offer. Sometimes, if you want to shore up a particular weakness in your arsenal of business skills, you might want to go to a school that has a long track record in that discipline. For example, it would make a lot of sense for a non-profit professional who wants to improve their quantitative skills to go to Wharton and take advantage of its rigorous Finance and Accounting curriculum, rather than a school that is more focused on non-profit career training.

Campus facilities

With a partner or family in tow, quality of life issues should be given careful consideration. Some of the factors to weigh are: Is the campus spread out and big, or small and compact? How long will it take your partner to return home from late night study sessions? Where is the B-School library located? Does the school utilize a shuttle system? Is there an on-site gym? Are children allowed? Do you feel safe walking around at night? Where do families and partners congregate? Are there eateries? Is this a self-contained campus, or integrated into a city or school town?

Range and number of clubs

It’s well-known that MBA students spend an extraordinary amount of time at school networking, socializing, and participating in clubs and professional activities. Devoting time to these activities is considered foundational to the experience.

The investment typically takes equal priority to academics because it uniquely accelerates professional practice and exposure. With this in mind, students and partners should factor all clubs — not just partner ones — into the B-School decision.

Geography will impact your finances as well. The cost of living in Boston or Los Angeles, for example, will be greater than in Cincinnati, Charlotte, or Pittsburgh. If your partner is an established professional, geography may impact job prospects.

Many schools like Tuck allow partners to hold senior positions and pursue opportunities independent of their other half. A majority allow partners to participate in any organization a student does. But Hernandez suggests you not go blindly into this demanding social environment, advising that there can be impacts on your relationship, “My boyfriend’s priorities changed after we arrived. His priorities became school and networking, and I had to get used to that. I did not anticipate how B-School would influence him. Having very clear communications of what is to come and what the priorities are, should be set beforehand.”

Diversity of student body

Like most people, you’ll want to be part of a community where you feel comfortable. Knowing what that is, is a very personal matter. The best way to determine this is to do your research. Ask for a profile of the student body. Check out fellow students and partners on campus when you visit. You may notice a certain common denominator. Although B-Schools are incredibly open, diverse and welcoming, it all comes down to this: will both you and partner feel at home?

Student vibe

Although B-Schools have come a long way from a singular reputation of graduating executives fast into their suspenders and other people’s money, each B-School community has its own vibe. And you should make sure it’s in sync with yours. Is this a happy place? Are partners and students invested in the community or is there a commuter mentality? Is there an esprit de corps, or is it every woman for herself?

An MBA program with strong links to Wall Street may attract a more driven and inward-focused crowd than those with academic tracks for public service. Likewise, a school with a diversity of academic specializations will have students with diverse career interests matriculating there. There’s no easy way to sum up a school, nor would it be fair to make generalizations. But the ambition and career path of students are wise to consider too.

Sizing up an entire group of students and a school’s ethos is tough to do. It’s best to think of schools like a recipe: take one dollop of academic focus (finance? general management? entrepreneurial study?), add a shake of geography, a dash of club diversity, and two pinches of school prestige. Mix it with access to regional employers and big hirers, and top with a liberal sprinkling of school culture. What have you got? Hopefully an idea of where you’re headed.

B-School for Both of You

Armed with an MBA, any graduate can go far. Armed with the information a couple needs to choose a B-School for two, the experience will be happier. Dr. Wilhelmina Hernandez, a current partner of an MBA student at the Anderson School at UCLA, says “The couple should pick the program together; it’s a big decision best made by both.” The bottom line? When you have a significant other, business school is a joint venture.

Check out part 2 of our series: Now that you know you belong, here’s a sampling of what you’ll find.

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